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Top 10 Dog Myths

#1: Dogs are pack animals with a clear social order. 


This one falls apart immediately because all the evidence suggests that free-ranging dogs (pariahs, feral and semi-feral populations) don’t form packs.  Dogs actually form loose, amorphous, transitory associations with other dogs.  And males do not participate in the rearing of young as occurs in a wolf pack. 


#2: If you let dogs exit doorways ahead of you, you’re letting them be dominant.


There is not only any evidence for this, but there is also no evidence that the behavior of going through a doorway has any social significance whatsoever. In order to lend this idea any plausibility, it would first need to be ruled out that rapid doorway exit is not simply a function of their motivation to get to whatever is on the other side combined with their higher ambulation speed.  Dogs walk faster than us. 


#3: In multi-dog households, “support the hierarchy” by giving presumed dominant animals patting, treats, etc. first, before giving to presumed subordinate animals.   


There is no evidence that this has any impact on inter-dog relations or any type of aggression.  In fact, if one dog were being aggressive toward another, the laws governing Pavlovian conditioning would dictate an opposite strategy:  Teach aggressive dogs that another dog receiving scarce resources predicts that they are about to receive some.  If so practiced, the aggressive dog develops a happy emotional response to other dogs getting stuff, a helpful piece of training indeed.  No valuable conditioning effects are achieved by giving the presumed higher ranking dog goodies first.  


#4: Dogs have an innate desire to please. 


This is a concept that has never been operationally defined, let alone tested.  A vast preponderance of the evidence, however, suggests that dogs, like all properly functioning animals, are motivated by food, water, sex or play or being allowed to be in the company of other dogs or people it has bonded with, especially after an absence.  They are also, like all animals, motivated by fear and pain and these are the inevitable choices of those who would shy away from using motivators like food or toys or play.  So when a trainer says s/he is relying on the dog's desire to please, make sure it’s not code for some sort of coercive or aversive training technique.


#5: Rewards are bribes and thus compromise relationships. 


Related to #4, the idea that behavior should just, in the words of Susan Friedman, Ph.D., “flow like a fountain” without the need of consequences, is opposed by more than sixty years of unequivocal evidence that behavior is, again to quote Friedman, “a tool animals use to produce consequences.” Another problem is that so-called "bribes" are given before a behavior occurs and "rewards" are given after a behavior. And, a mountain of evidence from decades of research in pure and applied settings has demonstrated over and over that positive reinforcement – i.e. reward – makes relationships better, never worse. 



#6: If you pat your dog when he’s afraid, you’re rewarding the fear. 


Fear is an emotional state, a reaction to the presence or anticipation of something highly aversive. It is not an attempt at manipulation.  If terrorists enter a bank and order everybody down on the floor, the people will exhibit fearful behavior.  If the terrorist then gives one of the bank customers on the floor a compliment, twenty bucks or chocolates is this going to make them more afraid of terrorists next time? It’s stunningly narcissistic to imagine that a dog’s fearful behavior is somehow directed at us. 


#7: You must punish dogs for growling or else they’ll become aggressive. 


Dogs growl because something that is upsetting them is too close.  If you punish them for informing us of this, they are still upset but now not letting us know, thus allowing scary things to get closer and possibly end up bitten.  Ian Dunbar calls this “removing the ticker from the time bomb.” Much better to make the dog comfortable around what he’s growling at so he’s not motivated to make it go away in the first place. 


#8: Playing tug makes dogs aggressive. 


There is no evidence that this is so.  The only study ever done found no correlation between playing tug and the incidence of aggression directed at either family members or strangers. Tug games are in fact, a cooperative behavior directed at simulated prey. In this case a toy. 


#9: If you give dogs chew toys, they’ll learn to chew everything. 


This is a Pandora’s Box type of argument that has zero evidence to support it.  Dogs are excellent discriminators and readily learn to distinguish their toys from forbidden items with minimal training. The argument is also logically flawed as chewing is a behavior that waxes and wanes depending on satiation/deprivation.  Dogs without chew objects are like zoo animals in barren cages.  Unless there is good compensation with other enrichment activities, there is actually a welfare issue. 


#10: You can’t modify “genetic” behavior. 


All behavior is a product of an interplay between genes and the environment. (nature and nurture).  And while some behaviors require less learning than others or in some cases, no learning at all, their modifiability varies as much as does the modifiability of behaviors that are primarily learned. 

The Use of Dominance & Pack Theory Myths

The use of dominance and pack theory in explaining dog behavior has come under a great deal of scrutiny in recent years. The Association of Professional Dog Trainers (APDT) would like to inform the dog-owning public about the ramifications of a reliance on dominance theory as it relates to understanding dogs, interpreting canine behavior, and living harmoniously with our canine companions.


Theory and Misconceptions


Contrary to popular thinking, research studies of wolves in their natural habitat demonstrate that wolves are not dominated by an “Alpha Wolf” that is the most aggressive male, or male-female pairing, of the pack. Rather, they have found that wolf packs function in a way that is similar to how human families are organized, and there is little aggression or fights for “dominance.” Wolves, whether it be the parents or the cubs of a pack, depend on each other to survive in the wild. Consequently, wolves that engage in aggressive behaviors toward each other would inhibit the pack’s ability to survive and flourish. As Senior Research Scientist L. David Mech recently wrote regarding his many years of study of wolves, we should “once and for all end the outmoded view of the wolf pack as an aggressive assortment of wolves consistently competing with each other to take over the pack.” (Mech, 2008)

In addition to our new understanding of wolf behavior, study into canine behavior has found that while dogs do share some traits with their wolf cousins, dogs and wolves are different in many significant ways.  In other words, the idea that dog behavior can be explained through the application of wolf behavior models is no more relevant than suggesting that chimpanzee behavior can be used to explain human behavior. Unfortunately, the idea that dogs are basically “domesticated wolves” living in our homes still persists among dog trainers and behavior consultants, as well as breeders, owners, and the media.


One of the biggest misconceptions we find ourselves faced with is the definition of “dominance.” Dogs are often described as being “dominant,” which is an incorrect usage of the term. Dominance is not a personality trait. Dominance is “primarily a descriptive term for relationships between pairs of individuals.” and moreover, “the use of the expression ‘dominant dog’ is meaningless, since ‘dominance’ can apply only to a relationship between individuals” (Bradshaw et al., 2009).


Dominance comes into play in a relationship between members of the same species when one individual wants to have the first pick of available resources such as food, beds, toys, bones, etc. Even between dogs, however, it is not achieved through force or coercion but through one member of the relationship deferring to the other peacefully. In many households the status of one dog over another is fluid; in other words, one dog may be the first to take his pick of toys, but will defer to the other dog when it comes to choice of resting places.


Dogs that use aggression to “get what they want” are not displaying dominance. They are displaying anxiety-based behaviors, which will tend to increase if the dog is confronted with verbal and/or physical threats from the human owners. Basing one’s interaction with a dog on dominance is harmful to the dog-human relationship and leads to further stress, anxiety and aggression from the dog, as well as fear and antipathy of the owner.


Living with Dogs: What’s Important?


When it comes to living and working with dogs, the concept of dominance is largely irrelevant. This may come as a surprise to many dog owners.  The truth is that when working with dogs that have a training or behavior issue, the goal of the dog professional is to develop a behavior modification or training plan that addresses the problem at hand. For the most part, this does not require understanding a dog’s motivation and emotional state. Instead, the training or behavior modification plan should focus on what the dog is doing (behavior), what we want the dog to do instead, helping the dog understand how to perform the desired behaviors, and then reinforcing him for doing so.


Far too many times, dog owners have been given advice to “show the dog who’s boss” and “be the alpha.” The unfortunate side effect of this thinking is that it creates an adversarial relationship between the owner and the dog, due to the belief that the dog is somehow trying to control the home and the owner’s life.  Such misinformation damages the owner-dog relationship, leading to fear, anxiety and/or aggressive behavior from the dog.  Dogs cannot speak our language, so they can be thrust into situations in our homes that they find difficult to comprehend when owners try to behave as they mistakenly believe “alpha” wolves do.


Rather than dominance, it is most often a lack of clear interspecies communication that leads to behaviors we find troubling. It is the human’s responsibility to teach the dog the behaviors that we find appropriate, and reward the dog for doing things we like. Just as importantly, it is our role to show dogs which behaviors are not appropriate in a constructive and compassionate manner that does lead to further anxiety on the dog’s part.


Aggression is Not the Answer


Actions such as “alpha rolls” and “scruff shakes” have no basis in the science of wolf or dog behavior. In fact, they actually create unnecessary fear in the dog, fear that can ultimately lead to aggression because the frightened dog knows no other way to protect itself than using its teeth. We all owe it to our dogs to see the world from their point of view, in order to create a more harmonious relationship.

Whether we are looking at a dog or a wolf, actions such as grabbing the animal and forcing it into a down, growling at the animal, and other aggressive behaviors directed toward the animal will only lead to the animal developing a “fight-or-flight” response, because the animal fears for its life. In this situation, the dog will either freeze out of fear, flee from the threatening animal or person if there is an opportunity to get away, or fight to save itself. When we engage in confrontational behaviors such as alpha rolling our dogs, we are not telling the dog we are “boss.” Instead, we are teaching the dog that we are dangerous creatures that should be avoided or fought off. There is no “dominance” in these scenarios – only terror and the instinct to defend oneself against attack.


If Not Dominance, Then What Do We Use?


Fortunately, many trainers and behavior professionals now use techniques that focus on building a caring and happy relationship with dogs, instead of relying on dominance. What these trainers have in common is a desire to promote effective, non-confrontational and humane ways of living successfully with dogs. These educated approaches aim to strengthen the bond between owner and dog and teach owners more effective ways of communicating with another species.

For dogs with behavior problems, trainers employ programs such as “Nothing in Life is Free (NILIF),” which works on the principle that the dog must do something to earn what he wants (i.e. sit to get dinner, walk on a loose leash to move forward, etc.) These programs are effective because the dog has a structured set of rules that are consistently reinforced, so the dog learns what he needs to do to get the things that he wants, such as food, petting, playtime, etc. Because dogs do not have the power of human speech and language, behavior problems and anxiety often result when dogs are left to fend for themselves in deciding how to live in our world, without guidance that makes sense. This is the same for people; we behave better, and ultimately thrive, in a world that makes sense to us and has clear, consistent boundaries and rules.


The myths that resonate in “dominance theory,” such as not allowing the dog to sleep on the bed, eat first, or go through doorways first, have no bearing on whether or not the dog will look to the owner for guidance.  The specific rules of the relationship are up to the owner and are based on what the owner wants in the household.   Humane, educated trainers should strive to teach owners to positively and gently influence and motivate their dogs to act in a manner that befits their own home, and tailor the rules to each individual. There is no scientifically validated data to uphold the belief that you must eat before your dog, or keep them from sleeping on your bed, or prevent them from walking in front of you. Owners should not be led to believe these ideas or any others like them, since that may cause them to live in a state of fear and anxiety over their dog’s possible takeover of their home.  In fact, the vast majority of dogs and owners have wonderful, mutually-rewarding relationships—even if the dog is allowed to sleep on the bed, eats alongside the owner, and does many other things erroneously labeled “dominance.”


To address some of the myths about dominance, we have prepared a related document, “Dominance Myths and Dog Training Realities.”


Final Thoughts


When choosing a trainer or behavior consultant to work with you and your dog, keep in mind that philosophies and methodologies vary among trainers. The Association of Pet Dog Trainers recommends interviewing potential trainers to determine their thoughts regarding dominance and the use of physical force and intimidation to train a dog, whether for obedience or for behavior problems. An educated canine professional should be well-acquainted with the latest scientific understanding of dog behavior, and be willing to openly discuss their training methodologies with you.


For further reading:


American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior 2007. AVSAB Position Statement – Punishment Guidelines: The use of punishment for dealing with animal behavior problems.

American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior 2009. AVSAB  Position Statement on the

Use of Dominance Theory in Behavior Modification of animals.


Bradshaw J.W.S., Blackwell E.J., Casey R.A. 2009. Dominance in domestic dogs – useful construct or bad habit? Journal of Veterinary Behavior: Clinical Applications and Research, May/June 2009, pp 135-144.

Herron M.E., Shofer F.S., Reisner I.R. 2009. Survey of the use and outcome of confrontational and non-confrontational training methods in client-owned dogs showing undesired behaviors. Applied Animal Behavior Science, 117, pp. 47-54.

Mech L.D. 2008. What ever happened to the term alpha wolf? International Wolf. (

Yin S. 2009. Dominance vs. unruly behavior. The APDT Chronicle of the Dog, Mar/Apr 2009, pp. 13-17.

Yin S. 2009. Low Stress Handling, Restraint, and Behavior Modification of Dogs and Cats. Cattledog Publishing. Davis, CA.



Revised:  March 12, 2019

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Dominance FAQ’s

What is Marker Training and Why Use It?

Marker training is an animal training method based on behavioral psychology that relies on marking desirable behavior and then rewarding it.


Desirable behavior is usually marked by using a "clicker or a word like "YES," When a word of the sound of a clicker is properly it can communicate to the animal exactly when they're doing the right thing. This clear form of communication, combined with positive reinforcement, is an effective, safe, and humane way to teach any animal any behavior that it is physically and mentally capable of doing.


Why is marker training effective?


When an animal intentionally performs a behavior in order to bring about the desired consequence, as animals trained using markers do, they are learning in a way that researchers call "operant conditioning."


Animals (and people) may also associate an action, event, place, person, or object with a consequence, whether pleasant or unpleasant. The more a certain event or environment is paired with a particular consequence, the stronger the association. This type of learning is called "classical conditioning" and represents reflexive or automatic behavior, rather than intentional behavior.


While conditioning a marker initially employs classical conditioning, it quickly becomes operant conditioning as soon as the animal intentionally repeats an action in order to earn a reward. Training through operant conditioning results in purposeful behavior, while training through classical conditioning results in habitual behavior.


The difference between an animal that behaves with purpose, rather than by habit, is vast. Marker trained or operantly conditioned animals try to learn new behaviors. They remember behaviors even years later because they were aware of them as they learned them, rather than acquiring them without awareness. They develop confidence because they have control over the consequences of their actions. They are enthusiastic because they expect those consequences to be pleasurable.

Why is a marker used?


The essential difference between marker training and other reward-based training is that the animal is told exactly which behavior earned it a reward. This information is communicated with a distinct and unique word (Yes) or sound, (a click), which occurs at the same time as the desired behavior. Then the reward (food or; even a favorite toy for instance) follows.


Without hearing a marker during an action, an animal may not connect the reward with that action. Or, the animal may associate the reward with another, unwanted action. Using a marker, a trainer can precisely "mark" behavior so that the animal knows exactly what it was doing to earn the mark. That's why  trainers call the "click sound" or the word "Yes" an "event marker." The Marker also bridges or connects the behavior and its reward, and so is also called a "bridging signal."


The clarity with which a marker enables trainers to communicate with their animals has a profound effect on their relationships. Their level of interaction increases and trainers and animals become more interesting and fun for each other.


How does marker training work?

Markers have to be conditioned in order to have meaning to the animal: Conditioning a marker is very simple. We use a form of learning called associative learning (also referred to as classical conditioning) to pair the marker with a reward the animal desires. 

  • Click or say "YES"

  • Reward the animal with a treat.


For your marker to become conditioned,  you must say the word or click BEFORE you reward the animal. The best way to remember this is to CLICK or say "YES" pause for 1 second and then reward the animal. Do 20 reps of click and treat or "YES" and treat and observe the dog's response to the word or sound. If he perks up and looks at you expectantly then you know the sound or word has been conditioned and now you can use it in your training. 


The trainer then starts training and using the mark (says the word "yes" or clicks) at the moment the behavior occurs: the horse raises its hoof, the trainer says "yes" or clicks simultaneously. The dog sits, the trainer clicks or says "Yes". Marking is like taking a picture of the behavior the trainer wishes to reinforce. After "taking the picture," the trainer gives the animal something it likes, usually a small piece of food but sometimes play, petting, or other rewards.

Very soon (sometimes within two or three marks), an animal will associate the sound of the click or the word "Yes" with something it likes: the reward. Since it wishes to repeat that pleasurable experience, it will repeat the action it was doing when it heard the marker. Any behavior can be trained with any animal following these three simple steps:

  1. Get the behavior to occur.

  2. Mark the behavior.

  3. Reinforce the behavior.

How do marker trainers ask for behaviors?


Trainers that use Markers differ from traditional trainers in that they wait until the behavior is well understood by the animal before adding a verbal command or "cue." A cue is the name of the behavior, such as "sit," or a hand movement or other clear signal. Until the animal knows what the behavior is, any name for it would be meaningless so they wait until the animal is robustly offering the behavior before naming it.


When the animal has been marked several times for a behavior, and then confidently repeats the behavior, showing that it knows exactly what earns it a marker and a reward, it is ready to learn the name of the behavior. Marker trainers call this "introducing the cue/command."


To teach the animal the name of the behavior, or the cue, the trainer says "SIT" before the animal repeats the behavior. After several repetitions, the trainer begins to mark and reward when the animal does the behavior, but only after the cue is given. No mark is given if the animal does the behavior without being given the verbal cue (SIT) first. The animal quickly learns to listen or watch for its cue, which tells it: If you do this behavior now when I say this word, you will get a mark and earn a reward.


What if the animal does not obey the cue?


Marker trained animals want to perform behaviors for which they have been rewarded in the past. If they understand the meaning of the cue and desire the reward, they will perform the behavior.


If they do not perform the behavior, marker trainers do not assume that the animal is "disobeying." Instead, the trainer asks the following questions:

  1. Does the animal know the meaning of the cue yet?

  2. Does the animal know the meaning of the cue in the environment in which it was first taught, but not in the new environment in which it was given?

  3. Is the reward for doing the behavior desirable enough by the animal to produce the behavior they are asking for?


After answering those questions, the Marker trainer revises the training process to be sure that the animal knows the meaning of the cue in all environments, regardless of distractions, and feels rewarded for the behavior.


Why don't Marker trainers use punishments as well as rewards?


A consequence of any behavior can be unpleasant as well as pleasant. So why shouldn't punishments follow unwanted behaviors, just as rewards follow wanted behaviors?


Research tells us that punishment may decrease the frequency of unwanted behavior but, usually results in producing other unwanted side effects such as fear, stress or anxiety in anticipation of the possibility of being punished. The results of punishment as a training method are difficult to predict and to control.


In addition, punishment is not usually identified with an event marker. It almost always comes after the event and is rarely clearly connected with a specific behavior. In the animal's perception, punishment is a random, meaningless event. It is, therefore, less effective than the combined use of an event marker and positive reinforcement in changing behavior.


Marker trainers also feel that their relationships with their animals are stronger and more rewarding when they focus on the positive rather than the negative. Like the difference between an animal behaving with intention rather than by habit or out of fear, the difference in attitude and enthusiasm between an animal that works to earn rewards rather than to avoid punishment is vast.

How can Marker training be used to get rid of unwanted behaviors?


Marker trainers allow unwanted behaviors to disappear through a lack of reinforcement. If a behavior is not rewarding to the animal, eventually it will disappear. If an unwanted behavior persists, marker trainers study the behavior to understand why it is reinforcing to the animal. Sometimes the behavior reinforces itself: a barking dog is less bored than a quiet dog. The barking is its own reward and can be reinforcing to the dog. The marker trainer provides this dog with an alternate behavior to replace the unwanted behavior. The bored dog may simply need more activity, or perhaps quiet resting for longer and longer periods can become a rewarded behavior. Then the marker trainer would teach the dog a cue for "silence."


Do markers and rewards need to be used for every behavior, forever?


Marker trainers can maintain the behavior by replacing especially good treats with occasional and less intensive rewards including a pat or praise. Learned cues and behaviors are also maintained by real-life rewards: for example, sitting quietly at the door is rewarded by opening the door so that the dog can have a walk. Marker trainers then save marks and treats for the next new thing they want to train.


Can marker training be used with any animal?


Yes. First widely used by dolphin trainers who needed a way to teach behavior without using physical force, operant conditioning can be and has been successfully employed with animals of all sizes and species, both domesticated and wild, young and old; all breeds of dogs and puppies, cats, birds, leopards, rats, rabbits, chinchillas, fish, and more.

Marker trainers who learn the underlying principles have at their disposal a powerful set of tools that enable them to analyze behaviors, modify existing methods for individual animals, and create new methods where none previously existed. This flexibility allows the tools of marker training to be re-invented in new forms that work in a range of situations, and for an infinite variety of animals.

The same principles have also been applied to training for athletes, dancers, skaters, and other people. Called "TAGteach," this form of training uses a click as a marker signal to teach precise physical motions quickly, accurately, and positively.


Is clicker training a training method or a philosophy?


Sometimes people are surprised by the enthusiasm and dedication marker trainers have for their craft. These trainers may have first started learning to mark as a way of training their dog, but soon realized that the fundamental principles of marker training could be applied to other areas of their lives. Changing one's focus from the negative to the positive can certainly be a life-changing event.

How to Manage Puppy Biting

What Is Play Biting?


Puppies are little biting machines. They bite things that move, things that don’t move; they bite each other; they bite your hands, your feet, your clothes—to them, anything is fair game. This behavior is totally normal for puppies and it’s an important part of their development. When puppies play, they learn from each other when a bite is too hard. This takes the form of yelps, body language, and suspension of play activity. The average pup quickly figures out how to use her mouth more gently to keep play going. This development of a soft mouth and bite control is called Bite Inhibition, and it is The Single Most Important Thing to teach any pup before he or she turns 5 months old when adult teeth begin to emerge, and jaw strength increases exponentially. Why You Should Allow Some Biting


Puppies need to learn that humans are total wimps: our skin is fragile, and we can’t be treated as roughly as their furry playmates. By letting your puppy bite, you with varying degrees of pressure over a controlled learning period, you’ll teach her to develop a soft mouth and to not bite you at all, unless you invite it. Why a “No Biting” Policy Is a Very Bad Idea. You may encounter information about never ever allowing young puppies to bite at all. This is based on outdated methods and involves techniques such as holding the pup’s mouth shut, giving sharp verbal reprimands, or rolling the pup on its back. This type of training might appear to stop a puppy from biting you in the short term, but the side effects can be disastrous: your pup may become afraid of you, or afraid of other people, or she may become fearful when having her head, mouth, or body handled in unrelated situations. But the real downside to a no biting policy is that your pup doesn’t learn actual control over her mouth. That means if she’s ever startled or hurt and reacts by biting, she may bite so hard that she causes serious injury. Why? Because she never learned how to control her bite while she was still a pup.


How to Train:


For several weeks, you’re going to do “bite training” with your pup so she gradually learns to reduce the force of her bite with you, your family members, and eventually with other humans. Each week you will get a little stricter about your puppy’s bite pressure so that it tapers off from “hard crunches” and becomes very soft mouthing, if any at all. Depending on your pup’s temperament and rate of learning, you’ll use either Plan A or Plan B as described below or you can use a combo of both plans.


Feed as many meals as possible to your pup by hand. Release the kibble only for a polite soft mouth. If your pup gets nippy with your hand, simply close your fist around the food and wait, without saying anything. Your pup will eventually give up on biting and sit back to wait for the food. For more advanced practice, try the same exercise with “lickable” foods that you can smear on your fingers. If your pup is engaging in regular supervised play with other pups and safe adult dogs, her furry playmates will expertly teach her how to bite them appropriately, especially if she gets too rough or acts annoying. This is a key component of successful puppy biting training as well as puppy socialization, so keep up the puppy play dates!


PLAN A: This approach is appropriate for very young pups (under 12 weeks). It’s also recommended for pups who show any social shyness or fear with humans. If you aren’t quite sure about your pup, start with Plan A But, if the pressure of your pup’s bite doesn’t change within a week, switch to Plan B.


  • Hold your pup in your lap when she is tired, calm, and not excited.

  • Put your finger in the corner of your pup’s mouth near the molars.

  • Wait for your pup to bite down with some noticeable pressure.

  • When she does, you can yelp or loudly say “Ouch!” But don’t move your finger. If you pull your finger out of your pup’s mouth, she will learn to chase it in order to bite it again like a play toy so stay strong and keep your hand very still.

  • The second your pup eases up on bite pressure, praise her lavishly and pet her gently with your other hand.

  • Repeat over and over as many times a day as possible.


PLAN B: This approach is appropriate for many older pups (over 12 weeks), and for pups who like to chase feet and/or bite clothing, and especially for pups who don’t respond to Plan A. These pups are excited by your yelps and bite you harder because they think it’s a game and that YOU are a Big Squeaky Toy!


  • Wait for your pup to nip or bite your body parts or clothing.

  • The moment she bites with any pressure, say “Too Bad” or “Time Out”.

  • Then either immediately leave the room (if puppy-proofed), or place her in a Time Out Area for 10 to 20 seconds (see Time Out handout for more complete guidance).

  • Repeat this Every Single Time your pup bites you or family members with unacceptable pressure.

  • If the pressure IS okay, such as soft mouthing, then praise her and allow play to continue.


Real Life Training Tip. If your pup is in nippy mood and you don’t have time to train or supervise her, put her in a confinement area with a chew or a stuffed food toy such as a Kong. This is not punishment; this is a management option to give her a safe, legal outlet for biting and chewing. Plus, it will help you stay sane. Need More Help? We have trained millions of pups to be polite with their mouths. Contact us if you’d like a trainer to work privately with you on bite training. We can help you turn a chronic biter into a respectful, gentle pup in no time at all.

The Importance of Proper Socialization

What Is Socialization?


Socialization is a developmental process where puppies familiarize themselves with all the various environmental and social elements in their world. It’s how they work out what is safe as opposed to what’s not safe, scary, and bad. The most critical age to socialize your pup is from 8 weeks to 12 weeks of age while they are still very impressionable.


After this time, socialization efforts are much more challenging so, anything you want your puppy to cheerfully accept as an adult—including a wide variety of people, animals, objects, environments, and situations, must be introduced repeatedly and in a positive manner in the first four months of his or her life; then revisited regularly during the first year of life.


Puppies Love Everything!


Sure, they do, until, this early stage of their developmental process closes. At that point, if they have not been socialized properly, they can become wary of other dogs if they have met too few; or shy and growly around children or strangers, unless they have enjoyed meeting dozens of them over and over during this critical socialization period. They can grow fearful of walking on different surfaces, entering new buildings, or even riding in a new vehicle unless they’ve done it repeatedly. Under-socialized dogs often develop all sorts of behavioral issues stemming from lack of proper socialization and can suffer from lack of confidence that can lead to aggression, fear and reactivity towards people, animals, and objects.


The key to successful socialization is variety and repetition. One or two encounters with a person, place, or thing are not enough to form a solid impression that will last well into adulthood. So, it’s your job to make sure your pup learns to be comfortable and remains that way as she matures.


How to Practice:


Think about the things your puppy will see every week as an adult. Visit those places, see those people, and experience those things over and over. Your goal is to help your pup become a confident dog and form positive associations with literally everything. Make sure you cheer, praise and reward her when she encounters something new. Offer a treat whenever possible. Here are 3 easy steps to guide you:


STEP 1. When you notice something new, observe your pup's response. If she seems scared or even a bit nervous, move further away, give treats, then keep a safe distance from the scary thing. Flooding can be dangerous and damaging if your pup is fearful of something.


STEP 2.  As soon as your pup seems more relaxed, try again. When she sees or hears the “scary thing” that worried her before, start your cheerful praise and dole out the treats generously.


STEP 3. If your pup does not seem worried or nervous about the “scary thing”, or acts curious about it after a treat, go back and let her investigate a little more. Then once more, praise and treat so she thinks, “Hey, that new “scary thing” isn’t so bad!”


Hot Tip: When you move away from new or scary things, stop your praise and the flow of treats. You want your pup to learn that it’s the presence of those scary things that make the goodies happen. Once this association is strong, you’ll see your pup looking at you expectantly around the “scary thing”.

That’s because she’s anticipating the food—which is exactly what you want to happen.

Over-exposure or negative experiences can lead to trauma and fear; this is why it is so crucial to go at your puppy’s pace. If your puppy becomes fearful, remove him from the environment, give him space to take in what is going on and never worry that you are reinforcing the outdated belief that you are reinforcing or rewarding fearful behavior. Your puppy is counting on you to listen to them so please, be his advocate. Ensure he feels safe.


If your puppy is now showing fear of certain things, it will be essential to understand how to execute counter-conditioning. D Zazie Todd explains beautifully in this article What is Desensitization and Counter-Conditioning in Dog Training.


Is it too late for your dog?


Often we acquire our dogs once the socialization window has closed, or, you may not have understood that we can safely socialize before vaccines are complete. Read more about socialization and vaccines here. No, you cannot socialize an adult dog; however, you can execute behavior modification exercises to change how he feels and the associations he has already made in life. It is true that once the window has closed, we have missed a significant opportunity; however, that does not mean that we cannot follow appropriate socialization protocols for adult dogs. 


And remember, every experience and interaction your puppy has, influences how they feel about you and the world around them.